Lately, I’ve been feeling really anxious, sad and lonely. I decided to write this post to share my experience coping with these emotions and let others know that it is totally fine if you feel like this.
For the past couple of days, I noticed that I became
really emotional and anxious. I cannot think straight - if I try to, I just
overthink and I get scared and that tires me so much to the point where I just
lay in bed most of the day and listen to music. Even though I have friends that
I talk to on a regular basis, I feel lonely. I realized that this lockdown
literally absorbed all my happy thoughts (wow I am just so great at explaining)
and I feel really unmotivated – again.
I am really bothered with not being that much active on my blog as I want to because I love writing so much and I am so proud of myself for starting a blog, but every time I sit and open my laptop my mind goes blank, and I don’t know what
to write about. Everything I write seems so superficial and it doesn’t feel
right.
I talked to my friends and my family about my feelings, and they have all been so supporting that it made me feel a lot better because I know that this feeling will pass soon. I am so grateful for having such a supporting circle of people that really care about me.
I just wanted to write this short post to tell you that if
you’re dealing with the same emotions, you are not alone. We all go through something
and it is perfectly fine you feel like this. For me, it really helped talking
to my family because they are always here for me so I would say try talking to
someone you know and maybe getting help from a psychologist.
There is nothing to be ashamed of feeling this way and wanting help. This lockdown hasn’t been gentle on any of us, but you can be gentle to yourself and try staying positive. Doing some small tasks in a day can really help you, and I know that this sounds so dumb but always make your bed when you get up – tidy bed, tidy mind, like my mum says.
If you don’t feel comfortable talking to someone you know,
you can always message me – maybe we can help each other out, who knows. I am
here to remind you that it will be fine, it won’t last forever, and you’ll
feel better really soon.
I hope that with university starting tomorrow and me
actually going to campus once a week will make me feel a lot better and that I'll
start focusing on my blog exactly the way I want to.
Stay safe!
Love, Bruna
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I cannot believe I’ve had this blog for over a month and in
that little time I got over 2,000 views on it – seems ludicrous. I am so grateful
for everyone who supports me and sends me messages and subscribes to my blog, you
have no idea how much this all means to me!
Because of that I decided to share a few tips that helped
me the most to get to 2,000 views in only a month and a week!
Without further ado,
let’s get onto this post!
1. Social Media
You could’ve probably guessed that social media has a big
influence on growing views, so I’ll just get on with it. The primary platform
to me is Instagram. Every time I upload a post, I share it on my story and
sometimes even make an Instagram post about it! Be sure to put the link to your
page in your bio because most people who view my blog come from Instagram. The
next platform I also use every time I post is Twitter. Now, some of you
probably think that Twitter is so out of date, but I think it is such a good
platform to grow an audience. I usually put up a link and tag other blogger platforms
to retweet it so I can get more views. Besides those two socials, I link every
post on Facebook! Also, when using Instagram and/or Twitter, don’t be afraid to
use hashtags or to tag relevant people because it will get more views and more
potential subscribers/followers!
2. Threads
Now, to some of you this is really unfamiliar, but it has helped me so much in the blogger community. To be more precise, I am talking about weekly/daily post threads. I mostly see them on Twitter but every now and then it can be found in groups on Facebook. Post threads are created by others blogger (can also be created by me) and you usually comment on the Tweet linking your blog and view other blogs and comment on them and they will return the comment. It is pretty simple to use and I’ve met so many talented bloggers using this and it really helps to grow views. Besides blog threads there are also Instagram threads where you link your Instagram account and also for Facebook and other platforms.
3. Mailing list
This is something very new to me so I am still learning on
how to do it and what is the purpose of it but I find this so interesting and
creative to do besides blogging. I am talking about the mailing list or an
email subscription. By having this on your blog, you can create emails however
you want and send them to your subscribers whenever you want – I usually do it
when the new post comes out and when I have any updates or surprises! You can
also do monthly round ups, freebies or templates – literally anything you want.
I personally use Flodesk for designing emails but as I said,
I am really new to this so I’m not sure if it is the best website to use.
Definitely research a little bit if you’re planning on adding this to your
website.
4. Organisation
I know that to some of you this seems so bizarre – like,
how does organization help in growing views and readers? Well, it’s quite
simple. People find minimalistic websites more impressive rather than websites
with too many colours, harder to navigate and harder to use. What I am trying
to say is that minimalistic templates for blogs are much more attractive to viewers
and much more effecting to grow the audience. When you think about it more, you’ll
realize that you’ve probably done this already – did you ever followed an
Instagram account because of the feed? It is the same for the blogs.
5. Facebook Groups
This engages meeting new bloggers, which is always a plus!
I am currently in three Facebook groups that help with growing an audience
either on Instagram, YouTube, Twitter or Blog! It has the same principles as threads.
You comment below the post with the link to your socials and comment on others
posts and they will return the favour! It is really simple to use, you just need
to research a little bit to find those Facebook groups, but once you’re in, you’re
it!
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Thank you so much for reading this Wednesday's post! Comment down below if you're using some of these tips and which of those listed above you find most interesting!
Talk to you very soon!
Let's be friends! Add me on Instagram @bruna.haller
Stay safe!
Love,
I am officially in the last year of being a teen. Can't believe that I am freaking 19 years old. So much has happened during the last year and I am just so excited to see what this last teen year brings me.
With that being said, I decided to dedicate this post to 19 important things I learned in my 19 years.
1. If you go after what you want, you'll get it (eventually)
As I mentioned in previous posts, I decided to go after my dreams. I always thought of myself as a dreamer so I decided to apply to study in London. I know that to some of you that doesn't seem like a big deal but trust me (a small town girl from Croatia), it means a lot.
2. Don't overthink
It's just that simple - overthinking kills your happiness. I am a person who overthinks every single thing and that has never brought me any good. I feel anxious and sad, my heart is just beating very fast and I can't breathe. I decided to stop because it was just slowing me down.
3. You shouldn't trust everyone
In the past years, I have made (and lost) a lot of friends and realized that I shouldn't talk to everyone about everything. I hate gossips and such, so now I just have a small circle of best friends who I tell everything.
4. Some friendship end and that's okay
As I mentioned, I had some friendships that didn't last. At first I felt sorry because I really thought we would be friends for a long time if not forever, but when you start high school you usually just go your own way and that's okay. No need to be sad about it.
5. Always make time for family
Family is the most important thing in the world. Trust me, I have been rude to my parents so many times and when I finally got over the puberty faze, I realised what I missed. My parents are the best and they deserve the world!
6. Make connections
This is honestly so important for everyone. Don't be shy and not talk to people. If you have connections it is easier to find a job or an internship, easier to contact people if you need to ask them something and easier to make new friends. Today, connections mean everything!
7. You can't control everything
8. Don't be mean
9. Don't judge
I have judged people so many times and I can't stress this enough of how sorry I am because most of the time I didn't even know the real story. You never know what is going on inside their head and how much they struggle. Instead of judging, it's better to help or to leave the person alone.
10. Always do what feels right for you
Never say yes to anything that doesn't feel right. Always do what is best for you and never let someone else decide how you feel or what you want.
11. Be open-minded
I have always been open minded so I never had a problem with that. But I think that everyone needs to learn how to not get offensive when someone else criticizes their work or beliefs. I always love to hear what others think and of course if their arguments are better than mine and have more sense I am all for supporting that.
12. True friends will always be there for you
13. Know your worth
You know what you can accomplish. Don't ever think that you aren't worth somebody's attention. You are and don't stop on anyone's account except yours.
14. Make memories
I don't mean to just go out and have fun and post pictures on your Instagram Stories. Take photos, videos, but for yourself not for others. I mean, I don't see anything wrong with sharing that with your followers as long as it's real.
15. Always be yourself
16. Stop worrying about what others think of you
If I still cared about what others think of me I wouldn't be doing this. I would be shy and would never follow my dreams.
17. Grades aren't everything
Every parent and school says that if you don't have good grades that you won't be able to get a job. I totally disagree on that. I think that if you work hard enough for everything you want you will get it. By that, I don't mean that if you fail a subject you'll get what you want, but I also think that being an excellent student doesn't mean everything. I wasn't an excellent student in high school and on my graduation exams I got good grades and with the work that I wrote for university I got in.
18. Love yourself
I have always been self-consious about being too thin and I hated my body for so long. I didn't want to wear dresses because "mY LeGs weRe To0 SkInNy". If you seem unhappy with your own body, others will see that also, but if you're confident others will see you as a confident person - that's a fact.
19. Love your life
The most important, is to live your life. We only have one so I say we make the most of it. Do whatever you want to do and don't let anyone stop you! We got this!
Thank you for reading this weeks post! Means a lot!
Comment what is the most important thing you've learned until now.
I plan to start posting twice a week from now on, so stay tuned because the new post is coming soon!
Let's be friends! Add me on Instagram brunahallerxo
Stay safe.
Love, Bruna ♡
2. Cheers, Brother!
Hi everyone!
Welcome to my first post! I decided to start my blog journey in a chill, get to know me type of way. As some of you may know, I already had like 10 blogs in the past but because of judgy people I was scared to post anything and just decided to stop - please don't do that, I honestly regret it now.
Well, without further ado let's get on with this post!
1. What is your full name?
My full name is Bruna Haller. My middle name is Helena.
2. What does your name mean?
Honestly, I googled it once before and I think that Bruna in Italian means brown. I am not a 100% sure. If you're Italian please clarify lol.
3. Are you named after anyone?
I am and it's so funny to me.. My parents, after they got married, went on a vacation in some small village near the coast and they met a waitress in a café bar they were always going to while being there and the waitresses name was Bruna and they thought it was a really beautiful name and they decided to call their future child (me) that. I don't know why, I just find it so funny.
4. Where are you from?
I am from a small town called Sisak in Croatia. I was born and raised there. :)
5. Who did you look up to while growing up?
I can't ever remember. At a young age, probably nobody, but when I started high school it was my parents. They are both the strongest people I know.
6. What is your biggest accomplishment?
Oh for sure it would have to be getting into my dream university and moving to London! Really proud of that one!
7. What is your biggest regret?
As I said, I really regret being 'scared' of my peers in my hometown. They always judge and now I understand that it's always going to happen no matter what I do and that shouldn't stop me from accomplishing things in my life.
8. What inspires you?
Most definitely imagining myself at my dream job. For as long as I can remember, I wanted to work in a Fashion Magazine and just imagining it really inspires me to work hard and to finish my degree and work my way up to the top.
9. What is the most important thing in your life?
My family. And by family yes I mean my parents but also my friends. Everyone is always there for me and they all give such good advice. They always support me and I just love them all sooo muchhh. <3
10. What is your favourite musical genre?
I listen to almost everything, but my favourite right now would have to be R&B.
11. What is your favourite quote?
"If it comes, let it. If it goes, let it.". I have no idea who said that but it's really true.
12. What is your favourite movie and your favourite TV show?
My favourite movie I think is Shutter Island (it's hard to choose because I have so many) and my favourite TV show is either Gilmore Girls or Friends.
13. Are you a dog person or a cat person?
I love both. I want to have both in the future but I want to have a cat while I live in a flat and later when starting a family I would like to have a dog.
14. Do you have a tattoo?
Yes, I have six of them and I plan to get more once everything goes back to normal.
15. What is your star sign?
I am an Aquarius but I honestly don't get all the buzz about star signs.
16. What was your first job?
My first (and only) job I've ever had was a waitress. I worked as a waitress for a month and a half and then quit because the people I worked with were awful and I just wanted to have a good summer.
17. Do you like reading books?
I've never and I mean NEVER been the type to read books. I didn't even read the ones I needed to in high school just cause I found them boring but funny I say that, I am reading them know because being in college is harder than being in high school. :)
Yeah, so now I'm actually reading books for my university assignments and I am reading one for my personal enjoyment. It's called Such a Fun Age and it's by Kiley Reid.
Also, one of my New Years resolutions is to read one book a month. I really want to start reading books more.
18. What is your favourite song at the moment?
I think the one I am listening to the most right now is Streets by Doja Cat.
19. What is your favourite social media platform?
I guess Instagram. It's a love/hate relationship.
20. What can everyone expect on this Blog?
I just plan to talk about trendy topics, what I do in a day and such. I will mostly talk about Fashion and Lifestyle.
I hope you enjoyed getting to know me a little bit. I plan to post at least once a week and sometimes twice when I have enough time.
I also apologise for my English as it's not my first language!
Thanks so much to everyone who supports me, means a lot!
See you soon!
Love, Bruna ♡
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